We all know people who make almost anything appear easy. We watch in awe at what they manage to accomplish with what appears to be minimal effort. As we observe their gifts and wonder if we might ever match their ability in some way, we can be unaware of how someone, somewhere does same to us! Don't 'play down' a talent or skill you possess. Be proud of it. Share it.
It's possible those pincers of yours could be drawn a bit too quickly, so if you sense a need to become defensive, then take a deep breath, count to ten and try to see a situation rationally. It's also possible you'll criticize someone but confuse them by insisting they do as you say as you merrily do the opposite. There can't be one rule for someone else and another for you.
Our memories might be faulty at times, but we can always count on our emotions to be reliable and true. There are no 'good' or 'bad' emotions, but we can go to great lengths to create a distinction between the two. You know there are more benefits to expressing emotions than suppressing them, and that's something to bear in mind this week. You can't help what you feel in some way, and it might be time for a certain person to be aware of this. You're blessed with extra level of levels of courage and sensitivity to speak from the depths of your heart this week. Don't apply both sparingly.